How To Make Your Twin Flame Show Up On Planned Dates


Your Twin Flame tells you he wants to take you to a restaurant on Friday.

You feel excited all week and maybe buy a new dress for the date.

But then Friday comes, and you haven’t heard from him.

You feel confused and send him a text message wondering what time you should meet. He doesn’t respond to your text, or the phone call you make to him two hours later.

You feel disappointed – because you really wanted to see him, but also because it’s too late to make plans with someone else.

Friday is ruined and you feel like a fool.

Why would he ask you out and then suddenly change his mind?

You are a nice woman and you totally understand if something important came up and he had to cancel.

But is it too much to ask that he let you know about the change of plans?

You don’t know if you should act “cool” like you don’t care or speak up and tell him he can’t treat you like this.

If you have even been in this kind of situation with your Twin Flame, you are not alone. I’ve been there, and so have many of my clients.

Here’s the thing: Stuffing your feelings down and acting “cool” will not work. Instead, it will create a resistance in your vibe as you hold back your true feelings. This does not inspire him to come closer.

Telling him he can’t treat you like this, or that he better show up on planned dates in the future, will not work either.

Judging your Twin Flame for his behavior (even if he really IS treating you poorly) will make him feel bad and withdraw.


STEP #1: Understand How Men Work

Men do what they want… pretty much all the time. If they don’t feel like doing something they simply change their mind.

Sometimes they half book with different women or friends, and don’t decide until the last minute in case something more fun comes up. I know that sounds cruel, but it’s the truth. You can use this knowledge as a secret weapon.

In his world, he thinks if you haven’t heard from him with more details like time and place, the date isn’t really decided. It’s more of a “maybe.”

Next time, when he says he wants to see you and asks if you are free (let’s say Friday), tell him “Aww…I would love to see you. Right now I’m not booked Friday...”

Meet his maybe with a maybe.

If he isn’t asking you out on a real, specific date (which means that time and place is decided), don’t see it as date at all. See it as a little bonus that might happen.

STEP #2: Have An Interesting Backup Plan

A Goddess always has interesting things going on in her life and a lot of plans. This lets her lean back naturally. When this is you, you don’t care so much if a date is cancelled.

When you agree to a date with a man, make sure you have a backup plan. Check in what friends are doing, what movies are playing at the cinema, or what parties are in your neighborhood.

A backup plan will be your safety net.

You will feel less stressed knowing you have something else to look forward to. If a date is cancelled, you are still glad, because you are now going instead to that awesome movie you wanted to see.

When you don’t focus too much on one date, you will have a high vibe no matter what.

STEP #3: Have High Standards

Create a standard that works for you. How much “maybe space” do you feel comfortable giving a man?

Make some rules that work for you, so you feel good booking dates.

Your standards are unique, because you are.

There’s no right or wrong place to set your standards; the important thing is that they feel good to you.

For example, if you haven’t heard from a man two days before the supposed date, then you book something else.

You are the trophy, not him.

The more clear you are about your standards and know what you allow and don’t allow from men, the better men will treat you. You don’t even have to say the standards out loud. They will show up in your vibe, and men will naturally respond.

STEP #4: Date Different Men

Your vibe is everything -- and it’s hard to keep your emotional tank filled if you only date one man who isn’t ready to commit.

When you are dating like a Goddess, it’s the man making the most effort who wins a date with you.

If he snoozes, he loses.

If he hasn’t booked a real date with her, her schedule is still open. If another man asks her out, she accepts.

Your true Twin Flame wants to do the work!

A Twin Flame knows that if he doesn’t follow through with his plans, you are free as a bird. If he reaches out to you and you are already booked, you can say” I would love to go on a date with you but I need to have 2 days notice.” Making a boundary like that shows him you are a high value woman without making him wrong.

A Twin Flame will understand that he needs to make an effort to impress you... and he’ll start doing it.


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Love, Viona

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